I will share you this information from my own experiences and after talking to countless girls.
Many guys who are flirting with girls at bars, think that this is a beginning of something big and serious.
In most cases, they think it wrong. In a party, we make out with girls just to have a little fun. So it’s a failure as a men to became addicted or asking too many questions. First of all you must do, what most women does. Simply just enjoy the kiss and live for the moment. If a girl doesn’t want to ask your phone number or didn’t want to give it after the party, don’t be disappointed. You just met a girl, who just want to have a little fun. There is no reason to think that the girl is a cheap whore.
Of course this is not always the case. A kiss can be a start of something big, but don’t think this is standard. Just try to enjoy the kiss and the night itself. Live for the moment. Yes, maybe something will begin after the kiss, maybe not.
But, and I know I am repeating myself, but don’t run after the girl and don’t think she is a whore just because she didn’t gave her phone or didn’t want to start a relationship with you after a short dance and a kiss.
A girl once explained this to me: “Every woman loves to make out, but not all of them want to be caught. So a kiss to them is only a fun thing to do, nothing else.”
And yes, if we think about it there are many reasons why kissing is allowed to guys and girls also, without any further consequences:
- We are living in the 21th century
- Revenge kiss
- Ex-forgetting-kiss
- Boring-kiss
- Impressing-kiss
- “I-just-want-to-know-if-he-is-a-good-kisser”-kiss
- etc
To summarize: If you met a girl in a party, try to enjoy that few hours – even if you won’t meet each other again.
At least I am going to a party, to have a good time THERE. So do the same.
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Posted by Seduce-Girls.com
Apr 19, 2011